2.6 Buddy Love
Many stories have a love story in them and, as you'll see in the 15 Beats section later, many a B Story involves the “love story” of a film. This is why we are often confused when we say a movie is a “love story.” After all, what does that mean? I prefer to call these “Buddy Love” tales because these are stories about how the most important event in our lives is... meeting someone else! The overarching rule of the “BL” tale is: “My life changed for having met another!”
These movies all chart the slow realization that one is not as good without the person who completes him or her. There is an essence in each that their “other” identifies with, compliments, and appreciates, that no one else can. And yet, our heroes both fight being together! Why? Partly this is just good drama. It would be a very short movie if the lovers “got it” on page one. The key is to have them hate each other at the start and slowly come to learn their lives are much better with their “better half” than without.
Here are the three components — and note especially the examples below, because Buddy Love stories include a wider range of tales than you might think:
1. It’s about an “incomplete hero” who is missing something physical, ethical, or spiritual; he needs another to be whole.
2. A “counterpart” who makes that completion come about or, in the case of a three-hander (story about a triangle) or a four-hander (story about two couples), has qualities the hero(es) need(s).
3. A “complication,” be it a misunderstanding, personal or ethical viewpoint, epic historical event, or the prudish disapproval of society.
Examples: The Other Guys, Brokeback Mountain,  Titanic, When Harry Met Sally…, Lethal Weapon, The Black Stallion
 
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